As I stepped out of 2018, and into the new year, I searched for a word to describe the year that I had just experienced. I lay in bed with the television on Fox News, waiting for the ball to drop at midnight, central time. The hosts were wrapping things up, and just like that, the next show came on. I had missed it. No ball for central timers apparently, but looking back, I had missed most of the year really, and this was a very appropriate exit. Haggard is the word I  would probably settle on.

Where do I want 2019 to take me?

What are my expectations for this new year?

Well, before I can answer any questions, I must come to terms with 2018. There were so many things that were awesome for me personally, but I tend to let the negative override the positive, and I realize the silliness of it all, because every year has it’s hardships. Time seems to fade the hardships into the background, and what we’re left with are happy memories as we go forward. Where do I want this new year to take me? Forward.

Where to, I have no idea, and that brings me to expectations. We are no longer civil people. I remember a time when people feared God, but now, if they believe at all, it’s some version that not only condones their deviant behavior, but fully endorses it. I don’t think this year will make any of that better, but I do have the responsibility to pray that it does. Do you know how little effort it takes to treat others the way you would want to be treated? We have got to relearn how to be kind.

One big unacknowledged problem we have right now is that crazies are at war with everything decent. The more vulgar, and angry, and flamboyant these groups are, the wider the gap becomes between us, and I don’t think anyone knows how to compromise with that. I also don’t think that compromise is what they are looking for. In my mind, the easiest thing people can do in a free society, is coexist, and take responsibility for themselves. Nobody is interested in responsibility though, not when they can place blame on a manufactured boogeyman. I promise you that this will not get better this year.

So, once again, The only answer I can find, is to keep your family close. Spend time with each other, and savor the moment. Be kind to those around you. Give others your time, and once again, be kind when you can. Time is slipping away.

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